Sunday, 26 February 2017

Moving Forward :)

呜哇啊啊啊啊,我终于有时间来更新了。

也不知道发生了什么事,可能是已经很少静下来慢慢整理自己的思绪了吧,
现在处于一个写华语和英语都写不好的状态呵呵。

2016 年七月到现在,发生了很多事,还需要时间适应,
其实这几个月情绪起伏都很大,所以说太感性真的不好哈哈哈。

去年这个时候我还在大学赶着 assignment,
担心做不完,现在已经工作了4个月,
我到现在都还是很想念很想念大学的生活。



- 2016年 7月 - 
五月毕业之后有差不多两个月都在吃喝玩乐,
生日虽然落在毕业之后,
但是社团的朋友们还是特地花心思帮我准备,
真的是太感动了啦啊啊啊 T_T

还有男朋友送的皮包,
婷颖和晓婷送的钥匙项链,
嗯嗯,每一年生日都感受到满满的爱    

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                                                                      - 2016 年 9 月 -
去年9 月的其中一个 highlight 就是我的毕业典礼呀

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三年的呕心沥血终于结束,唯一的遗憾是6缺1少了一个瓜。
老实说原本一开始进去 MMU 读,我没有抱太大期望,
就觉得是一间普通的大学。完全没想过要离开的时候会不舍得。
感谢大学三年期间的人事物,你们教会了我很多很多。:)


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我亲爱的 kacuak 们,希望大家都过得还好。



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谢谢你们特地送的菜 lol





毕业典礼之后的一个礼拜,我就开始了我的 working life.
其实一直都有想要离开马六甲的念头,
毕竟在马六甲土生土长了22年,很想去看看外面的世界怎样长长见识哈哈哈
我一直以来都对吉隆坡没什么好感,觉得就是一个很杂很乱很压力很拥挤的城市,
最后决定往新山和新加坡试一试 (就是想尽办法要把“想要天天见到男朋友才决定在南部发展”这件事合理化就对了啦哈哈哈)

毕业之后我花了大概两三个月在找工作吧,也思考了很久究竟想进哪一行,
最后想了想,之前实习的时候在偶然的机会之下在马六甲的一间小型的发展商呆了3个月,
对 property industry 也没有太大抗拒,觉得还有值得探索和学习的空间,
就决定试试申请 EcoWorld. 
其实在收到 EcoWorld 的 interview invitation 的时候,
我已经得到了新加坡另一间公司的 job offer, 
所以当时去应征,是抱着一种去体验一下大公司的面试是怎样的心态去,
怎么知道应征了之后,就有些动摇,
我考虑了两份工作的很多因素,比如说薪水啊,工作性质啊,前景等等,
最后觉得 EcoWorld 这份工会提供我比较多学习的机会,
然后就拒绝了新加坡的 offer.

所以呀,我现在就已经在 EcoWorld Residence Club 工作了4个多月。
基本上 EWRC 就是我们公司的售后服务部门啦
(对没错就是那个每天会收到顾客投诉的部门)
当初会选择这份工的原因也是因为想要挑战一下自己,
认识我的人应该都知道,我的性格比较内向,不太擅长和陌生人交际,
所以就想把自己丢出 comfort zone 磨练一下。

目前我的工作性质就是需要每一天和不同的客户接触,
而且因为公司卖的 property 是走比较高档的路线,
顾客群也都是一些要求很高的大咖。
每一天都有不同的惊喜,因为同一件事,跟不同的顾客讲解,
会有不同的反应。

其实每一天打开眼睛的那一刻,想到要去工作,
心里是忐忑不安的,而且真的很想家,
可是就会跟自己说,会有不安的时候代表我在接触新的事物,在学习把自己变得更好,
然后就不管多累多怕,都硬着头皮面带笑容去迎接顾客。
我目前还在慢慢适应,希望明天的自己会越来越好 :)

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而且庆幸的是公司很多Gen Y, 有同年龄的同伴一起奋斗,
大家都很友善很乐意帮忙,
同事们都很照顾我,几乎没有我担心的职场耍心机等等的负面情况。 






九月的时候还完成了一个小小的心愿就是终于和我认识了超过8年的网友 Vin 见了面。
因为公司的 family day 的关系来到了 KL, 就和他约出来见面,我们聊了好久,
虽然第一次见面,可是完全没有陌生的感觉。
我身边让我感恩的人有很多,这位朋友也算是其中一个吧。:)
Bro if you're reading this, too bad you can't read Chinese, prepare some tissue and go Google translate yourself lol.
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 - 2016年 10 月 -
10 月 1 号被公司派去 KL 总部参加新人的 Welcome Program,
我个人是很喜欢从高处看城市夜景的感觉,
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这是那天晚上从酒店窗口看出去的风景,
虽然没有格外壮观,可是我坐在窗前看了好几个小时。



Training program 结束之后,晚上从 KL 搭飞机回 JB,
我也往窗外看了好久好久。
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就是莫名的喜欢城市的夜景,
我希望以后可以到纽约或者东京之类的大城市,
找一个 skycrapper,然后看很久很久呵呵。







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然后跟你们介绍一下,这是我在新山租房,
隔壁邻居家的狗,我不知道他的主人怎么称呼它,
可是我喜欢叫它 Max 哈哈哈。
每次加班回来,看到 Max 心情就会好一下下。






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2016 年 10 月 20 日,我们的 1 周年。
谢谢你一直以来的呵护和照顾哟,把我养出了公主病 lol
希望我们一直都很好很好 :)







- 2016 年 11 月 -

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收到了大学 study loan 的 full amount waiver,
3年的努力就在等这一天,感恩!^_^





啊之后12月到1月基本上就是忙工作和过年啦,
其实我只是很累了懒惰继续打字所以要结尾了。
希望在读的各位一切安好,晚安呀 ~ 

Sunday, 20 November 2016

I'll be back.

Life, this shit is hard, ugh.

I owe this blog an update.

brb lol.

Sunday, 24 July 2016

April - July 2016

Suup, I'm back.
Highlights of my April to July so far:

1. I graduated from university with a first class degree.
Current status: Unemployed lol.
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2. I got a new car and has been a driver for about 6 months. 
Say hi to 小银,that's what I call it haha.
P/S: I still suck at side parking.
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Now moving on to other events that happened during the last few months.
We celebrated Ryan's 22nd birthday in April ^ ^
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Second round celebration at Pampas Melaka.

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Melaka has some really great night view.







Moving on to May, which was my last month in MMU.
Remember the time when I blogged about my graduation goggles back in 2012?
Haha I experienced that once again in May.

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One of my best experiences in May was representing my university to participate in 
HSBC's Business Case Competition.

Since it was my last semester in MMU,
I was expecting it to be mundane and nothing-really-out-of-my-comfort-zone kind of semester.
I'm really glad that I joined the competition.
Thank you Chi Siang, Zhao and Gerrald for being such awesome teammates.
And special thanks to Dr.Tan Pei Kian,
if by any chance you're reading this:
Thank you for your guidance throughout my university years, 
you're definitely the best lecturer I've met in MMU.
  






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My one last night run in MMU ;')







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Went to the desert at Klebang beach with my coursemates.
Windy day ~







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❤ Celebrated mom's birthday and mother's day







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Moved out of my hostel at the 1st of June 2016. ;')
Feels just like yesterday when I blogged about my first week as a university student haha.
Back then I looked forward to weekend a lot as I can go home and stay with my family.
And now I feel sad about leaving this place.
Thank you to all my awesome housemates, especially May May, Seiting, Jun Jun, Moon Moon for making this place felt like home. 







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A few days after I've officially completed all exams and moved out of the hostel,
I went for a short trip to my bf's hometown and met his family.
Not exactly a short trip as I ended up staying for almost a month lol.







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Later in July, we went for a short vacation to Bangkok, Thailand.



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Great food ^____^








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Simple birthday celebration.
I'm officially 22. :)







接下来,也要继续加油!
希望大家也一切都好哦~

Monday, 14 March 2016

1/4 of 2016 done done done.

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Sup. I have a lot of catching up to do do do do.

So the first quarter's 2016 is almost gone. 
Today is the first day of my semester break. 
Only one last semester left and I will be officially graduating from MMU.

Highlights for the past few months?

Good times with great people ,

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and good food. 
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Here's a random doodle I found on the desk in the lecture hall.
Cuute :)







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So the other day I was in the campus doing assignment with my friend,
and this cat suddenly jumped up on our table and just decided to occupy 1/4 of the space lol.
Cats,
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After almost 6 months of struggling,
my final year project is finally done!
Special thanks to my supervisor Madam Anushia for being super considerate and supportive during the whole process.







By the way, I am really starting to lose track on this blogging thingy lol.
My last few updates have been quite empty,
haven't been documenting my thoughts for a while heh.

So, like I said, my life as a university student will soon be ending by June.
Just trying to list down how I've changed / the things I've learnt for the past three years.

1. That thing between Japan and me? Pretty much gone.
Time sure can change a lot of things.
In June 2013 I entered MMU sad, grumpy and disappointed.
I even considered dropping out of my course during the first few weeks.
My initial plan is to learn Japanese during my 3 years here
and keep on pursuing my dream after I graduate.
All the classes, assignments and club activities started to get the best of me during my second year
and that's when I stopped taking my Japanese language classes.
I planned to get a JLPT N2 by the time I graduate but so far I'm only at N4.
So yeah,
I am not Japan-crazy like I used to be,
a vacation to Japan sounds great,
but I don't plan to pursue any part of my life in Japan.

2. I lost over 10kg with a compromised health condition.
I was 63kg when i first entered MMU.
I lost most of the weight during my second year by exercising like crazy.
However, it was also during that time when my diet and sleeping pattern was totally messed up.
I wasn't sleeping or eating properly.
The consequences?
I'm stucked with an acne problem for over a year now.
Breaking out on my face really affected how I interact with people.
I am still finding a remedy that best suits me.
So people, a good sleep and a good diet is soo important,
I couldn't stress this enough.

3. I learnt more about myself through my relationship with others.
I wasn't really the most talkative person in my class during my high school years.
You're welcome to label me with any of the characteristics of a typical introvert lol.
Over the past few years in MMU, I made a lot of new friends,
these are a few of my um, realization through my interactions with them.

First, always try to be friendly and helpful to people around you.
"Kindness is free, sprinkle that shit everywhere." - Some instagram quote, lol.
I'm a believer that  we can make the world a better place by being kind to people around us,
without expecting any return.
And that's what I've been trying to do, being genuinely nice to people.

Second, it's okay to open up to people and let them know your thoughts.
I'm very reserved and self-protective, it's just a part of who I am.
I used to be very insecure about talking to people about my thoughts/problems.
Well, I still am now, but I guess I can say I've learnt to open up a bit.
Still making adjustments and progress on this part yo.

Third, not everyone is going to like you.
Deal with it, there will be times when you approach people with the best intention
and did whatever you can to connect with them,
but things don't always work out.
It's not your fault, it's not the other person's fault,
sometimes people just.  don't.  click.
Relationship ain't no math, it's not logic,
don't expect people to always be understanding and agree with your actions or opinions,
don't expect the other person to do whatever you are willing to do for them back to you.
I was quite a bit shocked when I first came to this realization.
Ouch, not fun, but that's how you learn. :)

Fourth, sometimes I can be a douche and take people for granted.
Girls can be douche too.
I'm especially guilty of this on my relationship with my parents.
  When life gets too crazy, I neglected them.
I'm going to spend as much time as possible at home during this sem break.
And there are quite a few friends who are always there for me that I took for granted as well.
So, to these people,
I'm sorry for not being there for you when you needed me,
although you are always with me when I needed help.
I can be a lousy friend at times.
Thank you for still not abandoning me T__T

Fifth, my little sister is awesome.
Sister, best friend, professional life consultant.
My sister, is awesome.
I don't know what is life without her.

4. I need to find a new direction in my life.
Yeap,
life status is about to be changed from "student" to "unemployed" soon.
I'm still figuring this out.
And also, I'm kinda sleepy so lets just reserve the details for next time when I feel like it lol.







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Before I end this post, a special dedication to my babe,
Thank you for loving me for who I am.
I love you.